Resource Library

Welcome to the Above Coaching Student Resource Library, your go-to hub for all the essential tools, guides, and materials to support your coaching journey. This comprehensive library is designed to enhance your learning experience by providing easy access to a wealth of resources tailored to your needs. Whether you’re seeking templates, books, podcasts, or video tutorials, our curated collection will help you deepen your understanding, refine your coaching skills, and stay aligned with ICF Core Competencies. Dive in, explore, and make the most of the rich content available to you as you progress through your certification program. Your growth as a coach starts here.
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Student Tools for Success

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ICF Core Competencies

Access to the ICF Core Competencies.


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Coaching Tracker

Keep track of your coaching hours, training hours and mentor hours all in one place. 
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Code of Ethics

Understand the core values and ethical principals that are the foundation of our coaching standards.

Coaching Practice Tools for success

Practice Coaching 
Delivering Peer Feedback
Receiving Peer Feedback
Pre-Session Rituals
In-Session Tips
Post-Session Rituals
Pre-Session Obstacles
In-Session Obstacles
Post-Session Obstacles
Practice Coaching

Sharpen Your Coaching Skills Through Hands-On Practice

Practice coaching is crucial for aspiring coaches as it hones their skills, provides real-world experience, and ensures they are well-prepared to effectively guide and support their clients.

Prepare for Your First Practice Coaching Session

Documenting + Recording + Confidentiality

Sample Coaching Agreement

Building Blocks: Intentions + Reflection + Awareness

Delivering Peer Feedback
Feedback serves as a vital mechanism for professional and personal development within the coaching industry. It provides both the giver and receiver with invaluable insights into performance, behaviors, and outcomes, facilitating a deeper understanding of one's professional practice. Effective feedback goes beyond simple evaluation; it helps clarify expectations, adjust methodologies, and set new goals, all tailored to foster growth and effectiveness. Additionally, it strengthens the coaching relationship by promoting open communication, trust, and mutual respect. When feedback is given and received in a spirit of genuine support and collaboration, it can transform coaching interactions into opportunities for learning and connection, thereby enhancing the effectiveness and satisfaction of both coach and client.

Be Specific and Objective

Using objective language to describe specific behaviors or actions helps prevent the recipient from feeling attacked and keeps the discussion focused on observable actions rather than perceived intentions.

Focus on Improvement

Constructive feedback should emphasize future development opportunities rather than past errors to foster a positive atmosphere and encourage ongoing learning.

Encouraging Dialogue 

Effective feedback should be a collaborative discussion that encourages dialogue, making the receiver feel valued and involved in their growth process.
Receiving Peer Feedback
Feedback serves as a vital mechanism for professional and personal development within the coaching industry. It provides both the giver and receiver with invaluable insights into performance, behaviors, and outcomes, facilitating a deeper understanding of one's professional practice. Effective feedback goes beyond simple evaluation; it helps clarify expectations, adjust methodologies, and set new goals, all tailored to foster growth and effectiveness. Additionally, it strengthens the coaching relationship by promoting open communication, trust, and mutual respect. When feedback is given and received in a spirit of genuine support and collaboration, it can transform coaching interactions into opportunities for learning and connection, thereby enhancing the effectiveness and satisfaction of both coach and client.

Listen Actively and Openly

Approach feedback with an open mind and focus fully on the speaker to foster greater understanding and appreciation.

Ask Questions for Clarity

If any part of the feedback is unclear, ask for specific examples or clarification to avoid misunderstandings and gain clear direction on how to improve.

Reflect and Plan

After receiving feedback, reflect on the discussion and create a concrete action plan with specific goals, additional resources, or practice of new skills.
Pre-Session Rituals

Preparation extends beyond organizing the session's content; it involves mental and emotional readiness, which is crucial for being fully present and engaged during the session. Adequate preparation allows the coach to remain flexible and responsive, adapting to the client's needs in real-time and fostering a dynamic and effective coaching process. This readiness not only supports the specific goals of the session but also enhances the overall relationship between coach and client by establishing a foundation of reliability and thoroughness.

Review Client Information

Review notes from previous sessions, client intake forms, and any correspondence to tailor the session to the client's current situation and progress, ensuring the most relevant issues are addressed.

Mental Preparation

Engage in activities like meditation, deep breathing exercises, or a short walk to clear your mind, reduce anxiety, and maintain a calm, focused demeanor receptive to client needs.

Physical Preparation

Ensure your coaching environment is conducive to privacy and free from distractions. Organize your space to promote a professional and welcoming atmosphere that enhances communication and interaction.

In-Session Rituals

Preparation extends beyond organizing the session's content; it involves mental and emotional readiness, which is crucial for being fully present and engaged during the session. Adequate preparation allows the coach to remain flexible and responsive, adapting to the client's needs in real-time and fostering a dynamic and effective coaching process. This readiness not only supports the specific goals of the session but also enhances the overall relationship between coach and client by establishing a foundation of reliability and thoroughness.

Active Listening

Focus fully on the client's words, body language, and emotional cues to thoroughly understand their perspective and respond more effectively.

Adaptive Questioning

Use open-ended questions to encourage deeper exploration of issues and adapt questioning techniques based on the conversation's flow to maintain productive and insightful discussions.

Note-Taking

Develop a note-taking method that supports the coaching process, captures essential insights and action items, and ensures continuity and follow-up in future sessions without detracting from the interaction.

Post-Session Rituals

Preparation extends beyond organizing the session's content; it involves mental and emotional readiness, which is crucial for being fully present and engaged during the session. Adequate preparation allows the coach to remain flexible and responsive, adapting to the client's needs in real-time and fostering a dynamic and effective coaching process. This readiness not only supports the specific goals of the session but also enhances the overall relationship between coach and client by establishing a foundation of reliability and thoroughness.

Self-Evaluation

Immediately after each session, reflect on its effectiveness, assessing both strengths and areas for improvement. This reflection helps in continuously refining coaching techniques and approaches.

Client Feedback

Solicit feedback from clients to gain their perspective on the session. This feedback is invaluable for adjusting methods and improving the coaching experience.

Relaxation

Engage in a post-session ritual to decompress and mentally transition out of the coaching role. Activities like journaling or physical exercise can aid in this process, ensuring personal well-being and readiness for future sessions.

Pre-Session Obstacles + Strategies 

Common Obstacles:

Distractions: Mental clutter from external stressors or preoccupation with personal tasks.

Lack of Preparedness: Rushed preparation, lack of review of client notes, or uncertainty about the session’s direction.

Grounding Rituals

Tip: Dedicate 10–15 minutes before each session for self-reflection or mindfulness exercises.

Preparation and Intentions

Practical Application: Before each session, write down 1-2 key objectives that align with the client's goals and ICF core competencies like maintaining presence and active listening.

Managing Emotions

Techniques: Practice Emotional Intelligence by self-regulating through mindfulness and writing to help manage personal emotions that may affect the session.

In-Session Obstacles + Strategies 

Common Obstacles:

Mind Wandering: Losing focus or thinking ahead instead of being fully engaged with the client.

Client Resistance: Encountering a client who is resistant to self-reflection or progress.

Time Management: Struggling to keep the session on track or running over the allotted time.

Stay Present and Focused

Tip: Practice reflective inquiry by repeating back key points to the client and asking follow-up questions to keep engagement strong.

Handling Client Resistance

Techniques: Reframe client statements to help them see challenges in new ways and foster exploration, as highlighted by ICF Core Competency 8: Facilitating Client Growth.

Managing Time

Tip: Announce a brief time-check midway through the session to ensure all goals are on track to be covered.

Post-Session Obstacles + Strategies 

Common Obstacles:

Overthinking the Session: Replaying the session in your mind and questioning your responses or coaching techniques.

Emotional Drain: Feeling emotionally depleted or mentally exhausted after certain challenging sessions.

Reflection

Practical Application: Use a reflective journal to record insights from each session, noting where ICF Core Competencies were demonstrated and areas for growth.

Self-Care Practices 

Tip: Schedule a 10-minute break between sessions to recharge and reset your energy before meeting with your next client.

Receiving Feedback

Practical Application: Participate in peer coaching circles or group supervision sessions to receive feedback and maintain alignment with ICF standards.

Additional Resources to Help You Excel

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Book Recommendations 

Explore our curated selection of books designed to expand your knowledge and deepen your understanding of coaching. These titles have been handpicked to support your growth as a coach, covering a range of topics from foundational theories to advanced coaching techniques. Dive into these resources to enhance your learning journey and apply new insights to your practice.

Podcasts

Tune into our recommended podcasts that offer valuable perspectives from leading voices in the coaching industry. These episodes provide practical tips, expert interviews, and inspiring stories to keep you informed and motivated as you develop your coaching skills. Listening to these podcasts is an excellent way to stay engaged with current coaching trends and methodologies.

Coaching Demonstration Videos

Watch our curated collection of coaching demonstration videos to see effective coaching techniques in action. These videos showcase real-life coaching sessions, offering you the opportunity to observe and learn from experienced coaches as they navigate various client scenarios. Use these demonstrations to refine your own approach and gain confidence in your coaching abilities.
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Above Coaching is not affiliated with nor benefits from the recommendation of any of these resources.

Book Recommendations


Coach the Person Not the Problem
by Marcia Reynolds
Breakthrough Coaching

by Marcia Reynolds
The Four Agreements

by Don Miguel Ruiz
Coaching A to Z


by Haesun Moon PhD
Co-Active Coaching, Fourth Edition
by Henry Kimsey-House
Purposeful Curiosity
by Dr. Constantine Andriopoulos
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The Coaching Habit

by Michael Bungay Stanie
The Art of Coaching

by Elena Aguilar
Mindset: The New Phycology of Success
by Carol S. Dweck
Emotional Intelligence 2.0

by Dr. Travis Bradberry
Light Up: The Science of Coaching with Metaphors
by Lyssa deHart 
What Happened To You
by Dr. Perry and Oprah
The HeART of Laser-Focused Coaching
by Marion Franklin

Podcast Recommendations

Unlocking Us

by Brene Brown
Dare to Lead

by Brene Brown
The Coaching Studio
by Lyssa deHart
ICF Podcasts

by various coaches
#100 Master Coaches
by Mel Leow
Coaching Real Leaders
by Muriel Wilkins

Coaching Demonstration Recommendations


Lyssa deHart

Marcia Reynolds

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Melissa Kelly-McCabe


Damian Goldvarg

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